2015 welcomes me back

I would like to thank all of you who helped make 2014 a quite year

Here I go, again

Ok, I just got a brand new computer and I am still trying to get my files back and transferred. I will be back to posting in February.

I intend on just busting out with what made my blog famous and what I have promised for honestly too, too long.

Thank you all for the support and wonderful comments

As I promised

As my loyal fans already know, I have run into a "one after another" shitstrom. On top of that, I have had personal mental health problems, but I have figured out a way to "trump" my previous writings.

This will be my first "writing trilogy", but not my last. I am reluctant to come out with " Best of Both Worlds Part 2" until I get a fresher journalistic prospective.

It may or may not drive me to drink, but I wish so much to finish more of what I am truly about

Wednesday, February 25, 2015

Childhood Bullies Part 3

          A bully is one who without shame, use's intimidation or down-right brute strength in order to feel "whole". But, in fact they are cowards, they are so frightened of "something", it makes them cower and hide behind meanness.  A bully is the manifestation of the phrase, "misery loves company”.

          30 years ago, The idea of "bullies" only existed in or around the "school yard". You would either lose your lunch money or fight back, of coarse, you might still lose your lunch money. That was it, now, after so long of ignoring our kids and how they "feel", this very common and necessary step of "growing up" has turned into a High School Death Match. Every last, I mean ever single last danger or threat can be found in just about any grade, including Homocidal Gunmen. 30 years ago, that was un-heard of.

          These kids are subjected, daily, to the possibilities of--- waking up dead because their parents or family has gone "bonkers". They then try and not get hit by a vehicle of some sort. On the way to school, "I must trust that the bus driver is sober and alert". "Or, what if that mean kid messes with me". At School, "panic, utter panic"! "Is that girl/boy starring me down, does he/she like me or hate me?" "What is that teacher looking at?" "What do you mean I can't sit here!" "No one knows this, thank god, but I want a hug". "Now, reverse that process and go home".----This is what goes through the mind of most kids at school, some scenarios are more intense than others with each child.

          Can we honestly blame even the bully, he or she is already fighting whats at home or whatever is in their mind. Most victims of bullying will continue on their way, as they should. However, some kids fell trapped, cornered and alone, even in a crowd of friends. For kids who have no friends, life can be a little too much to handle. So some decide it's time to go.

          School staff and parents are turning to lawmakers to fix this problem, and in there lies the problem. Once again, and like so many other problems we face, the solution is where or what we hide from. Our children are begging us adults with the real power to just fix it.

          This problem must be fought from inside, that means teaching our children to face head-on, what is called "Life'. Through out our lives, we encounter demons, monsters who's sol purpose is to tear apart the fabric of society. Like with any fabric, no matter how strong, one little snip is all it takes.

          With so many adversaries around us, it is easy to forget the most powerful enemy can often be found from within. That is the biggest and best challenge one faces. Once you defeat your own demons, the others will seem like weak, vulnerable and frightened animals.

    Our own natural tendencies started this, so I think they are the only solution. "Nature or Nurture", "spare the rod, spoil the child", "when the going gets tough, the tough gets going". These phrases could help, but phrases like " If you can't beat them, join them" is why so many of the bullied become bullies.     

Saturday, January 31, 2015

January Monlthy Update

           It has been a long while since my last post and I am still trying to recover my files from my busted computer. That snag won't stop me for long. I want to wait to post pictures until I recover my hard drive.

I have some good news on my end, the Managing Editor at Simply SXY has asked me to participate in their mission to bring a better prospective to sexuality. They have an enormous amount of ways to find what "gets you good".

A new journey begins for me here, for I now have new inspiration. I feel rested and alert. A little more able to get my head back in the game. 
 
Since I have no pics, I must resort to what I am really about. My writings illustrate kindness, tolerance, open-mindedness and compassion. Qualities and principles that most people don't follow and their lives are worst for it, if not now, later

 No one knows what the future holds, but if you hold on to morality, I promise you will be better for it, if not now,later

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

The Epidemy of Cuteness 4


One of the cutest things to watch is a set or group of youngsters at play. What is remarkable is how not so uniquely Human "horseplay" is. In fact, another uniquely Human trait, humor, is necessary for "horseplay"

What at first seems like an attack, is merely a show of dominance and affection. Judging by the deeper colors and overall excitement, the one on top is male and the other is female, I could be wrong however. This categorization is usually accurate in most mammals, but there are exceptions.

These two Raccoons look and act very similar to the Ewoks of Star Wars: The Return of the Jedi. Those fury little rascals may not have been a match for "The Empire", but they were a match for ours hearts.

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Friday, October 31, 2014

Happy Halloween

          Imagine a world where no matter what direction you turned, there would be some one who gave you a "bear hug" every 5 minutes. This world is just slap full of people exchanging those hugs, every one of them has a "shit eating" grin on their face. The people all wear white clothing and grey shoe's and no one had a "potty" mouth. In this world, there is no need for Law Enforcement for there is no disputes of any kind, what so ever. The news articles would be full of stories about how to plant flowers, walk your dog, feed your cat and you only had healthy, wholesome and nutritious food to eat.

          I honestly and truly believe that would pretty much be utter Hell for most of us. So I am glad I live in this world. This world where only a few people smile back, where I can go an entire week before I see a door being held for an old lady. A place where so many people are so different from each other, always fighting and arguing. In this world, tiny toddlers are telling their parents to "piss"off. Somewhere that on a regular basis, a kid decides to unload a AK 47 during lunch period. A world where every mile of road you drive, you encounter 10 idiots, 5 jerks and 2 cross's along the roadside. 

          I'll tell you what, I am so thankful to not live in a opaque, dismal and dreary world. I want to thank each and every one of you heartless, thoughtless weak minded fools for illustrating on such a blunt and obvious level the difference between the light and dark. Those of you who feel like being cold, inconsiderate, rude and down righ mean or homicidal will have a very special place in my gut, amidst a fatal bowel obstruction so vile and dank, right where you belong.

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           As this is as far from eye candy as I felt I should go, it may be prudent and even necessary to un-see this entire post. Unfortunately, so many things are forever etched in our mind and may or may not lead to a psychosis of some sort.

Have no fear, this will NOT become a series, If I gave any of my fellow Bloggers or any of my viewers a Massive Heart Attack, I am so very sorry I was not there to watch you DIE!!!!!




Boy in the surf

Boy in the surf